Question 1 of 4
I am ashamed of how I behaved. Will you judge me?
“No. People who feel ashamed of an incident are usually the ones most ready to do the work. Shame is information, not character.”
— Dr. Kabir
Counselling Psychologist
Kabir works with adults — usually parents and partners — who came to therapy after an anger incident shook them. His approach is direct and skill-based: nervous system regulation, communication skills, repair work after blow-ups. No shaming, no lectures.
Concerns I can help with
If two or more of these land for you, this may be a good match.
“I overreact to small things — and feel terrible after.”
“I’m not the parent I want to be in the hard moments.”
“We have the same fight on a loop.”
“I dread family events I used to love.”
Specific specializations
Specialties
These are the recognised psychologist specialties this therapist practises across. Tap one to find similar therapists at Sagemitra.
I offer therapy for
Each focus area maps to specific approaches and outcomes worth discussing in your first session.
Approaches I use
A good therapist doesn’t pick one school and force everyone into it. Here are the approaches I draw from.
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy — distress tolerance, regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. Anchor for emotional regulation work.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy — works on the thought–feeling–behaviour loops behind anxiety, depression, and many specific concerns.
Builds the body’s capacity to come down from arousal — crucial for the explosive end of the anger spectrum.
I can help you with
If your situation includes one of these, mention it on day one. The work is paced differently when these are present.
My affiliations
Sagemitra
Mind Matters Ahmedabad
In their own words
The clinical bio doesn’t tell you everything. These do.
Question 1 of 4
“No. People who feel ashamed of an incident are usually the ones most ready to do the work. Shame is information, not character.”
— Dr. Kabir
What clients say
“Came after a parenting incident I was ashamed of. He didn’t shame me. He helped me build the regulation skills I never learned. My kids notice.”
— NS
Apr 2026 · session with Dr. Kabir
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